This week, we continue our conversation from episode three on how we talk to our spouses about our addictions. There are three specific steps we need to begin taking before that conversation happens. Frank shares those three steps & why it's so important to be completely honest with your spouse about your addiction. Enjoy the … Continue reading 013: 3 Steps to Take BEFORE Talking to Your Spouse about Your Addiction
As we prepare for the new year, you may be thinking about how you will live differently. Maybe you will eat healthier, join a gym or start that book you always wanted to write. Whatever it may be there is one common factor - change. Jason Vallotton shares insight on how repentance does not just … Continue reading The Process of Repentance by Jason Vallotton
In this bonus content from Purity For Life, we go back to an interview I did with my wife Tracey is 2014 about the pain that she walked through as I struggled with a pornography addiction which greatly inhabited the first year of our marriage. Tracey shares her feelings about our story and where God … Continue reading BONUS: How Sex Addiction Can Destroy Your Marriage
Through the process of addiction & recovery, our wives have most likely been the ones who have carried tremendous pain and felt incredible betrayal from our unhealthy choices. A year or so ago, my wife Tracey recorded three tips for spouses of men who struggle to help give them some hope for the journey. Let … Continue reading Wives: Hope For The Journey
This week on PFL, we talk about the value of your marriage here on this earth, but also for eternity. Frank & Tracey Honess talk specifically from their marriage and some of the principles that have guided them in the last nine years of their relationship with each other, especially through addiction and recovery. Show … Continue reading 194: Is Your Marriage a Sanctuary or a Battlefield?
I can remember countless times, especially during the beginning of my husband's recovery from sexual addiction thinking this phrase and sometimes even shouting it out loud...”I didn't choose this!”, followed by thoughts of “I didn't ask for this....”, “I didn't choose to be treated this way!”, “I didn't want this....” For my husband and I, … Continue reading I Chose This
One of the greatest things I cherish about my relationship with my wife is our commitment to complete honesty. Believe it or not, this is a characteristic that didn't come instantly on day one of marriage. It's one that's been cultivated over the last 9 years. And I believe each and every day, it's gotten … Continue reading This Conversation Tool Will Transform Your Marriage
Each year as Fall roles around many of us hear some of these questions from our spouses: “What do you want for Christmas?”, “What’s on your Christmas list?”, and “Any surprises you want from Santa this year?” Well, truth is I stopped believing in Santa a long time ago, but there is one gift that … Continue reading Sobriety: All I Want For Christmas