If there are certain things you shouldn’t tell your spouse about your porn addiction, it must mean there are important things s/he does needs to know. First and foremost, that you are using pornography. Confessing to your spouse, either before or after you’ve been caught, is crucial for your recovery and for your marriage to be healthy and whole. … Continue reading 2 Things Your Spouse Doesn’t Need to Know About Your Porn Use
My point of brokenness occurred when my wife (fiance at the time) took her engagement ring off and slid it across the table and said: "I won't marry you". It was as if the Lord was saying: "You've nearly destroyed your life, I won't allow you to destroy my daughter's life." Dishonesty is a destroyer … Continue reading 015: Dishonesty Will Destroy Your Marriage
Transparency in recovery means you're completely honest with your spouse, doesn't it? What do you really share with them? How far do you go in explaining to them how you struggle? This week, Frank & Tracey both attempt to address these questions and more as they talk from their own personal experience of addiction & … Continue reading 014: The Truth About Transparency
This week, we continue our conversation from episode three on how we talk to our spouses about our addictions. There are three specific steps we need to begin taking before that conversation happens. Frank shares those three steps & why it's so important to be completely honest with your spouse about your addiction. Enjoy the … Continue reading 013: 3 Steps to Take BEFORE Talking to Your Spouse about Your Addiction
As we prepare for the new year, you may be thinking about how you will live differently. Maybe you will eat healthier, join a gym or start that book you always wanted to write. Whatever it may be there is one common factor - change. Jason Vallotton shares insight on how repentance does not just … Continue reading The Process of Repentance by Jason Vallotton
In this bonus content from Purity For Life, we go back to an interview I did with my wife Tracey is 2014 about the pain that she walked through as I struggled with a pornography addiction which greatly inhabited the first year of our marriage. Tracey shares her feelings about our story and where God … Continue reading BONUS: How Sex Addiction Can Destroy Your Marriage
Through the process of addiction & recovery, our wives have most likely been the ones who have carried tremendous pain and felt incredible betrayal from our unhealthy choices. A year or so ago, my wife Tracey recorded three tips for spouses of men who struggle to help give them some hope for the journey. Let … Continue reading Wives: Hope For The Journey
This week on PFL, we talk about the value of your marriage here on this earth, but also for eternity. Frank & Tracey Honess talk specifically from their marriage and some of the principles that have guided them in the last nine years of their relationship with each other, especially through addiction and recovery. Show … Continue reading 194: Is Your Marriage a Sanctuary or a Battlefield?